Have you begun to realize that knowing how to get women is a life skill that you need to develop, and not something just a few lucky men are born? And, since there is no college course on how to attract women, you're probably equipped with only the meager skills you learned from friends and family while growing up.
1) Nice Guys Come Last
Women are suckers for those alpha-male types who look like they don't give a damn what others think. This is the X-factor that gets the girls in a tizz, that gets them asking "just WHO is that man?" Unless you've been hiding under a rock, I'm sure you've noticed that the guys who score most with beautiful women also happen to be some of the roughest around!
Of course this is contrary to what you expect--don't all women tell you they want a nice polite guy, someone generous, with a warm nature and who loves his mother? Sorry fellas, never mind what the ladies say, the evidence is overwhelming...nice guys come last! My advice to you is to stop listening to the advice of women on how to get women. They don't actually know what they really want. Far rather pay close attention to the men that women are actually dating, fooling around or sleeping with.
2) Women are Suckers for High Social Value
Humans, and their environment, have certainly evolved hugely since primitive times. However, you have to understand that we still follow behavioral patterns that were established millenniums ago. Back then, women searched out men who could protect them and care for them. The men that qualified were strong, able warriors and good hunters. They were looked up to and sought after, meaning they had high social value.
Today, this is equally true, but translates to women being attracted to men who are strong in some way which is relevant to modern times. And it doesn't mean that you have to be in the top echelon of leaders and achievers-- you don't have to be a sports champion, a celebrity, or very wealthy. But you must be strong in your own way, self-assured, and above all, naturally so...the words nonchalant and casually confident spring to mind.
Men with high social value are popular with both men and women. They never chase (not overtly, anyway)--that's a real social value killer! And remember, women also have social value: the more socially valuable a woman is, the more she's going to desire a guy who knows his own value and who believes that women need him more than he needs them.
3) Make Rejection Your Ally
If you've ever had any sales training, you'll have been taught to be happy when you get turned down. How come? Because it means you're one step closer to your next yes! And realistically, there is not and never has been a man who in all honesty enjoyed a 100% success rate in picking up women. Not even Casanova or Don Juan.
Well...maybe they came close, but you know what I mean!
This means that if you want to be able to select from the world's loveliest women, you simply must put your fears aside--you've got to put yourself in positions where you can meet women and ask them on dates. Unavoidably, some of them will turn you down. However, the more women you approach, the more times you will hear the sweet sound of " Yes!" And this will become increasingly true as you continue to develop your skill at how to get women.
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