There are so many ways to get women that most men don't even know about. Many men, like a lot of people, have a very false sense of security and a bad case of rejection fever when it comes to women. The key to how to get women to be interested in you has a lot to do with what I like to call the APES checklist: Appearance/hygiene, Personality, Elegance, and security.
Appearance
What you look like obviously has a big deal on whether or not you'll impress a woman, but it is by no means the deal breaker. Hygiene can play a critical role in determining what type of man your really are. Make sure you have clean teeth, or a breath mint handy, every time you approach a woman. A good rule of thumb is to, believe it or not, lick the back side of your hand and then smell it. I know it sounds nasty but try this one sometime, because it will really give you a idea of what your breath really smells like. Some other important aspects of appearance include getting to the gym regularly (also a great place to get women), frequent hair cuts, a nice inexpensive bottle of after shave, and a style that is different from everyone else.
Personality
This is a really big one, because a guy without a personality is likely to get the boot before he even makes an entrance. Now this is a hard judge because not everyone is the same. You may be the type of person that is an introvert and there is nothing wrong with that. You just have to realize that the personality that you give off will determine the type of women your going to get. What you say and do need to be in synch with each other, otherwise you'll just be like anyone else. A big part of your personality should reflect the type of person your going to be in two months, not just the guy your trying to be right now.
Elegance
Opening doors, saying please and thank you at dinner, and walking an old lady across the street can go a long way in showing women that your a true man. Don't laugh, its worked wonders for a lot of guys.
Security
Be secure in your own manhood, and don't copy off of your friends. I see so many friends out at bars and clubs that have the same hair do, dress in basically the same clothes, wearing the same cheap cologne, and drinking the same beers. Avoid all that by asking your friends what there wearing out, try a new cologne, even wear a something different than everyone else is. I once wore a sharks tooth necklace out all the time and would get so many women asking me where I got it from. Other guys thought I looked stupid wearing the thing, but I would end up with 3 girls numbers in my pocket and they would be talking to the mirror at the end of the night. The point is, be secure in your own way, and you'll end up getting a lot more women than you could imagine.
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